Our Friends who art in heaven
Do we have friends in heaven, as we do on earth? We actually do.
In the Lord’s prayer, God teaches us that he is our Father. He used an earthly terminology to help us comprehend his unconditional love. God, like all fathers, wants his children to be happy. Part of this happiness is built around the relationships we have with others that do so much to fulfill us. We’re social creatures: we enjoy having friends to love, talk to, and share interests with. God has made it clear that he, as our parent, wants us to love him more than anything and anyone else: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your soul and all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37). In addition to this primary relationship, he has given us the gifts of others here on earth, and even in heaven. Our friends in heaven are the saints who Jesus will be glorified in, “when he [Jesus] comes on that day to be glorified in his saints.” (2 Thessalonians 1:10)
There are several reasons God would give us friends in heaven. Saints have a proven track record of honoring and glorifying God. Thus, by honoring them, we follow God’s lead as he said, ‘Those who honor me I will honor.’ (1 Samuel 2:30) It was best said that our bond with God and the departed church members is essential because it prepares us for our eternal life. Christians believe that death is simply the separation of the soul from the body — not complete destruction. This belief comes from Jesus’ teaching, “God is not a God of the dead, but the living; for all live unto Him” (Matt. 22:32; Luke 20:38). Developing relationships with saints is good preparation for eternity because we are constantly reminded that we are eternal beings. Our minds can be occupied with what it is like to live in heaven and speak that language.
Timothy states, “For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.” (1 Timothy 2:5). Some use this verse to explain why Christians should not or don’t need to establish connections with saints. But what if there was a deeper theological meaning? That isn’t a conversation I intend to tackle here, but I do propose the following as food for thought: can one set the idea of “intercession” aside and still enjoy the gifts of the saints? Ideally, the relationship between humans and saints is best when it is free of any worldly expectations. It should not be based on any benefit or prayers in exchange for a reward. Think about humans’ relationships with saints like you think of your earthly friendships. It is a relationship that is built on love, trust, and shared interest. You talk to them, you trust their presence, and you glorify God with them.
Developing a relationship with saints is not the only way to utilize God’s gift of saints. Reading their stories and getting acquainted with their lives is very inspiring. Saints’ stories are full of love, hope, and sacrifice to Jesus. Following their lead can make you hopeful because they — as humans — were able to live holy lives. Thus, you too can live the holy life you are aiming for. Saints’ stories can also increase your capacity for love and the ability to sacrifice.
I am personally inspired by many stories of the saints. I also enjoy my relationships with many of them. I especially adore connecting with St. Moses the strong. Saint Moses the strong lived during the fourth century in Egypt. He was a murderer and robber. Jesus’ grace directed him to a monastery where he started his journey of repentance with the help of Abba Isidore. He fought against his old sins and habits until he became one of the greatest saints in the history of the Church. Saint Moses is my heavenly friend; I always feel his presence. In fact, the best time of my day is when I speak to him — my belief and trust are unlimited that he hears, cares, and prays for me.
We are always invited to seize the opportunity given by our father to establish relationships with our heavenly friends. It is harmless, simple, and spiritually rewarding. Take a chance — talk to them and enjoy their presence.
